ADHD/Aspberger's 10yr boy self mutilating??
Question:
[snip] – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – They are called paradoxical effects when the medication incites in your child, symptoms which the medication is used to treat in other people. . Atypical response to psychotropic drugs is considered a characteristic of ADHD, so people with ADHD are at higher risk for paradoxical and adverse re actions drug co. list on the drugs prescription label. Linda, you clearly have no idea what you’re talking about. Just as with your bizarre statements that ADHD and Tourette Syndrome are "identical twins" and that "according to the DSM IV it is not possible to diagnose [ADHD] for adults," just about everything else you post is complete and utter hogwash. You have yet to substantiate anything you’ve claimed, but when presented with accurate data, you deny it exists. Personally I wouldn’t go ballistic quite yet–it could be that the particular incident was not pathological and that having been told not to do it again he won’t do it again–he is, after all, a child, and children do sometimes do things which to an adult appear pretty strange and yet according to the logic of childhood are perfectly reasonable. If it repeats, _then_ I’d go ballistic. Nonethetheless, for the first time in her life Kilonym may have a valid point, however strangely arrived at.
I should have done a more thorough job of snipping. My comment was addressed to her claim that Atypical response to psychotropic drugs is considered a characteristic of ADHD, so people with ADHD are at higher risk for paradoxical and adverse re actions drug co. list on the drugs prescription label.
…not the earlier part. [snip] I think I would talk to the psychiatrist about this possibility if I were in the OP’s situation. And if he won’t entertain at least the possibility that the behavior is medication-induced I’d get a second opinion.
That’s good advice. Joe Parsons
Response:
My 10 yr old son has been diagnosed with ADHD for 5 yrs. School Psycholoist suspects Aspberger’s Syndrome, we’re looking into that more…Yesterday, I discovered 15-20 cuts on the palms of his hands and fingertips. He said (after much coaxing) that he’d been doing it at school with a needle he found. They look to be at least 3 or 4 days old, some fresher. His Psychiatrist asked him to promise never to do it again, and if he did, I’m to take him to the nearby rehab/mental illness clinic. He’s never been hospitalized, he’d been doing otherwise quite well lately, in January he switched from years of just Adderall to EffexorXR & Strattera. Dr. doubled his Effexor dose and told me to keep sharp things away from him and alert his teacher to keep an eye out. I’d never expected this in a milllion years, this is totally unfamiliar ground, and I’m terrified.
Don’t be terrified. What you’re describing is unusual, but it’s nothing to be ‘terrified’ of. Of course, it’s a parent’s job to worry, so I’m not saying ‘don’t worry’. Pain can be focusing, and it can, in a very strange way, be soothing, if you’re already hurting inside. For example, you’re allowed to cry if you’re hurt, but you’re ‘not supposed to cry’ over certain disappointments that don’t cause physical pain. Self injury or other intentional infliction of pain on ones’ self is not anything at all like pre-suicide. You should make sure that he’s not suicidal, of course, but you don’t have to be afraid of finding him dead if he’s only engaging in self-inflicted pain. Generally, the key to breaking self injury is to find another way to cope with overwhelming internal problems. I’ve heard – and I am *NOT* a professional, and I have *NOT* discussed this with people who self-injure – that in some cases, folks sometimes switch to non-injurious methods of pain infliction. I’m thinking that maybe – *MAYBE* – you need a different psychiatrist (or maybe a psychologist). I think that the psychiatrist is over-reacting, and doesn’t understand self injury. I don’t know this; I don’t know the psychiatrist, and I don’t know the full extent of the situation. But, it’s something to keep in mind… if your son doesn’t seem to be getting better, and the psychiatrist can’t help, it might just be that the psychiatrist can’t understand the problem well enough to help. My gut tells me not to hospitalize him unless it escalates or becomes difficult for him to stop. I suspect his Dr. told us this to cover herself in case he does hurt himself more drastically, but if this is just a one-shot thing or just odd experimentation on his own skin that will pass, I don’t want to overreact. I’m terrified, and have never heard of a child this young doing this…Any insights or suggestions from anyone?? I don’t know what to think. I want to take this seriously, but not freak him out, cause more anxiety, and make it worse.
Well… meditation can help. Tell him to pick a simple image (I personally like the following: as I breath in, I’m drawing in clean, pure energy from all directions, through my body to a spot about a foot above me (my head if I’m sitting up, my body if I’m lying down; as I breath out, that energy drops to the ground, pulling away ‘icky stuff’ with it) and try to focus on it for a while. It should be positive, and relaxing, and it should be something that *does* something (like the way my image ‘washes away ickiness (anxiety, etc.)’) It doesn’t matter if his mind wanders; he just wants to bring his mind back to the image as soon as he notices. Doing this is kind of like rehabilitating an injured muscle. You’re *NEVER* rough on yourself; you *NEVER* force yourself. You just keep trying, and doing what you can. If your mind never stops wandering, well, it probably needs to wander… so let it, just bring it back when you can. This has a three-fold effect. It relaxes a person; it also gives a person something to do to alleviate internal pain; thirdly, eventually, there’s less anxiety overall, because a person becomes comfident that the meditation will work, and anxiety won’t spiral out of control. I don’t know if it’ll help with a 10 year old… but it might. Really, and truly: DO NOT panic; you really don’t need to. *DO* make sure you can trust him if he says that, no, he really doesn’t want to die. Also, make sure that there’s someone he can talk to about this, someone who will *NOT* talk to you, ever, under any circumstances, unless he reveals an intention to seriously injure or kill himself. This is something that’s embarrassing to nearly anyone, and he simply might not be able to talk to you about it. Think of it in the same category as obsessive masturbation… just as private and just as embarrassing. Finally, I’m sorry if this is a bit disjointed… I’m pretty tired right now. I might try to write something more coherent tomorrow. — Everything I needed to know in life I learned in Kindergarten. Like: "Do not try to understand the bunny; that is impossible. Instead, try to understand the truth… there *IS* no bunny, but there is still a home to come to."
Response:
- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My 10 yr old son has been diagnosed with ADHD for 5 yrs. School Psycholoist suspects Aspberger’s Syndrome, we’re looking into that more…Yesterday, I discovered 15-20 cuts on the palms of his hands and fingertips. He said (after much coaxing) that he’d been doing it at school with a needle he found. They look to be at least 3 or 4 days old, some fresher. His Psychiatrist asked him to promise never to do it again, and if he did, I’m to take him to the nearby rehab/mental illness clinic. He’s never been hospitalized, he’d been doing otherwise quite well lately, in January he switched from years of just Adderall to EffexorXR & Strattera. Dr. doubled his Effexor dose and told me to keep sharp things away from him and alert his teacher to keep an eye out. I’d never expected this in a milllion years, this is totally unfamiliar ground, and I’m terrified. My gut tells me not to hospitalize him unless it escalates or becomes difficult for him to stop. I suspect his Dr. told us this to cover herself in case he does hurt himself more drastically, but if this is just a one-shot thing or just odd experimentation on his own skin that will pass, I don’t want to overreact. I’m terrified, and have never heard of a child this young doing this…Any insights or suggestions from anyone?? I don’t know what to think. I want to take this seriously, but not freak him out, cause more anxiety, and make it worse.
Don’t over-react. I"m a healthy 22 year old, I"ve never self-mutilated, but I can tell you that many of my friends have throughout their lives and they are healthy adults now. The first person I knew that did it was when we were 5 years old in kindergarden and it’s been going on with various people I’ve known. Usually, actually, I’m going to say, almost always, it’s not a big deal, it’s not like you’re going to end up killing yourself if you’re puncturing/cutting yourself because it’s usually just skin deep. It’s usually experimentation, sometimes it’s a sign of sexual/physical abuse or fear. And to be honest, I don’t know what upping his anti-depressant dosage is going to do. It might even make it worse because the doctor doesn’t know what is causing it anymore than you or your son do. It could even be the drug itself. Drugs can also have really odd side-effects. While on Paxil, I started smoking, which is something that is very harmfull to me since i’m an asthmatic. I would smoke, have an asthma attack, and repeat. I also lost my appetite, lost 20 lbs and became depressed. Drugs can have paradoxical effects, and one of the drugs you’re using could be prompting this. You’re better off having a talk with your son and telling him to come to you/call you whenever he feels the need to hurt himself and talk to you about why he’s feeling it. If your son feels you’re going to panic and drag him to the doctor everytime you notice it, he’s not going to trust you with it and try to hide it in places like his hair, underarms, groin area, etc. and try not to mention it to the doctor. -i
Response:
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My 10 yr old son has been diagnosed with ADHD for 5 yrs. School Psycholoist suspects Aspberger’s Syndrome, we’re looking into that more…Yesterday, I discovered 15-20 cuts on the palms of his hands and fingertips. He said (after much coaxing) that he’d been doing it at school with a needle he found. They look to be at least 3 or 4 days old, some fresher. His Psychiatrist asked him to promise never to do it again, and if he did, I’m to take him to the nearby rehab/mental illness clinic. He’s never been hospitalized, he’d been doing otherwise quite well lately, in January he switched from years of just Adderall to EffexorXR & Strattera. Dr. doubled his Effexor dose and told me to keep sharp things away from him and alert his teacher to keep an eye out. I’d never expected this in a milllion years, this is totally unfamiliar ground, and I’m terrified. My gut tells me not to hospitalize him unless it escalates or becomes difficult for him to stop. I suspect his Dr. told us this to cover herself in case he does hurt himself more drastically, but if this is just a one-shot thing or just odd experimentation on his own skin that will pass, I don’t want to overreact. I’m terrified, and have never heard of a child this young doing this…Any insights or suggestions from anyone?? I don’t know what to think. I want to take this seriously, but not freak him out, cause more anxiety, and make it worse. Effexor incites akathisia, self harm events, suicidal ideations, homicadal ideations, psychotic delusions, etc, etc They are called paradoxical effects when the medication incites in your child, symptoms which the medication is used to treat in other people. . Atypical response to psychotropic drugs is considered a characteristic of ADHD, so people with ADHD are at higher risk for paradoxical and adverse re actions drug co. list on the drugs prescription label. Linda, you clearly have no idea what you’re talking about. Just as with your bizarre statements that ADHD and Tourette Syndrome are "identical twins" and that "according to the DSM IV it is not possible to diagnose [ADHD] for adults," just about everything else you post is complete and utter hogwash. You have yet to substantiate anything you’ve claimed, but when presented with accurate data, you deny it exists.
Personally I wouldn’t go ballistic quite yet–it could be that the particular incident was not pathological and that having been told not to do it again he won’t do it again–he is, after all, a child, and children do sometimes do things which to an adult appear pretty strange and yet according to the logic of childhood are perfectly reasonable. If it repeats, _then_ I’d go ballistic. Nonethetheless, for the first time in her life Kilonym may have a valid point, however strangely arrived at. There was a change in medication and then a change in behavior, which may mean that the problem is medication-induced. OTOH, if the change was in January I’d have expected it to show up sooner than this. OTGH, my reaction to Strattera seemed to be progressive, getting worse over time, so it’s concievable that it just took that long for his reaction to his medications to develop to a point where he started engaging in self-destructive behaviors. Please note that I am not blaming Strattera–it could be an atypical (not "paradoxical" necessarily) reaction to Strattera, to Effexor, to the two in combination, or it could be completely unrelated. One thing that does concern me though is that according to the prescribing information, both Effexor and Strattera are norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors, which if I understand their funcitioning correctly would increase the amount of norepinephrine in the synaptic gap. OTOH, self-mutilation seems to often be treated with medications that block the action of norepinephrine, so it would seem to me that it is perfectly reasonable that using two norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors at the same time could potentially cause self-mutilation. It might be that the psychiatrist’s intention is to kick up the seratonin a bit and the norepinephrine a lot (Effexor works on both norepinephrine and seratonin while Strattera is selective for norepinephrine) but I find myself wondering if he just wasn’t thinking about the fact that the two do the same thing. I think I would talk to the psychiatrist about this possibility if I were in the OP’s situation. And if he won’t entertain at least the possibility that the behavior is medication-induced I’d get a second opinion. Joe Parsons
– –John Reply to jclarke at ae tee tee global dot net (was jclarke at eye bee em dot net)
Response:
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My 10 yr old son has been diagnosed with ADHD for 5 yrs. School Psycholoist suspects Aspberger’s Syndrome, we’re looking into that more…Yesterday, I discovered 15-20 cuts on the palms of his hands and fingertips. He said (after much coaxing) that he’d been doing it at school with a needle he found. They look to be at least 3 or 4 days old, some fresher. His Psychiatrist asked him to promise never to do it again, and if he did, I’m to take him to the nearby rehab/mental illness clinic. He’s never been hospitalized, he’d been doing otherwise quite well lately, in January he switched from years of just Adderall to EffexorXR & Strattera. Dr. doubled his Effexor dose and told me to keep sharp things away from him and alert his teacher to keep an eye out. I’d never expected this in a milllion years, this is totally unfamiliar ground, and I’m terrified. My gut tells me not to hospitalize him unless it escalates or becomes difficult for him to stop. I suspect his Dr. told us this to cover herself in case he does hurt himself more drastically, but if this is just a one-shot thing or just odd experimentation on his own skin that will pass, I don’t want to overreact. I’m terrified, and have never heard of a child this young doing this…Any insights or suggestions from anyone?? I don’t know what to think. I want to take this seriously, but not freak him out, cause more anxiety, and make it worse. Effexor incites akathisia, self harm events, suicidal ideations, homicadal ideations, psychotic delusions, etc, etc They are called paradoxical effects when the medication incites in your child, symptoms which the medication is used to treat in other people. . Atypical response to psychotropic drugs is considered a characteristic of ADHD, so people with ADHD are at higher risk for paradoxical and adverse re actions drug co. list on the drugs prescription label.
Linda, you clearly have no idea what you’re talking about. Just as with your bizarre statements that ADHD and Tourette Syndrome are "identical twins" and that "according to the DSM IV it is not possible to diagnose [ADHD] for adults," just about everything else you post is complete and utter hogwash. You have yet to substantiate anything you’ve claimed, but when presented with accurate data, you deny it exists. Joe Parsons
Response:
My 10 yr old son has been diagnosed with ADHD for 5 yrs. School Psycholoist suspects Aspberger’s Syndrome, we’re looking into that more…Yesterday, I discovered 15-20 cuts on the palms of his hands and fingertips. He said (after much coaxing) that he’d been doing it at school with a needle he found. They look to be at least 3 or 4 days old, some fresher. His Psychiatrist asked him to promise never to do it again, and if he did, I’m to take him to the nearby rehab/mental illness clinic. He’s never been hospitalized, he’d been doing otherwise quite well lately, in January he switched from years of just Adderall to EffexorXR & Strattera. Dr. doubled his Effexor dose and told me to keep sharp things away from him and alert his teacher to keep an eye out. I’d never expected this in a milllion years, this is totally unfamiliar ground, and I’m terrified. My gut tells me not to hospitalize him unless it escalates or becomes difficult for him to stop. I suspect his Dr. told us this to cover herself in case he does hurt himself more drastically, but if this is just a one-shot thing or just odd experimentation on his own skin that will pass, I don’t want to overreact. I’m terrified, and have never heard of a child this young doing this…Any insights or suggestions from anyone?? I don’t know what to think. I want to take this seriously, but not freak him out, cause more anxiety, and make it worse.
Response:
As far as I know, self-mutilation may be associated with autism; Asperger’s Syndrome is considered an "Autistic Spectrum Disorder". The fact that the school psychologist suspects Asperger’s is further evidence that this may be the case. I would advise seeking a psychiatrist (not psychologist) that specializes in autism. SSRI’s (like Prozac, Luvox, Celexa, Lexapro, etc.) are often prescribed to help with autism. Note that autism may have some relationship with anxiety, and anxiety disorders (including General Anxiety Disorder and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) are also often treated with SSRI’s. So you should probably watch for anxiety and perhaps OCD-like symptoms. Don’t worry too much about the word "autism". Obviously, your son isn’t severely impaired, or he would have been diagnosed with autism much sooner. Asperger’s, if that is in fact a correct diagnosis, is considered a "mild" form of autism. About the medications, to my knowledge Strattera and Effexor have similar (but not identical) properties – both, I believe, act as SNRI’s (with Effexor being the weaker of the two.) But Effexor also acts as a mild SSRI as well. (Again, this is from memory based on what I’ve read while researching ADD and OCD.) Anyway, if your son is truly an Aspie (as people with Asperger’s refer to themselves), then perhaps a stronger SSRI (like those named above) would be in order. Why was his medication changed from Adderall to Effexor XR + Strattera? Had its effectiveness decreased? Were there other symptoms? Another possibility is bipolar disorder – its symptoms can mimic those of ADHD. He could even have a combination of bipolarism plus anxiety/OCD/Asperger’s. The bottom line is that you should take him to a specialist. He may need his meds adjusted. But I’m sure he’ll be fine – you would have had many more problems by now if he were severely affected by autism or whatever. You may also want to visit the newsgroups ‘alt.support.autism’ and ‘alt.support.ocd’. Good luck. Mike – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My 10 yr old son has been diagnosed with ADHD for 5 yrs. School Psycholoist suspects Aspberger’s Syndrome, we’re looking into that more…Yesterday, I discovered 15-20 cuts on the palms of his hands and fingertips. He said (after much coaxing) that he’d been doing it at school with a needle he found. They look to be at least 3 or 4 days old, some fresher. His Psychiatrist asked him to promise never to do it again, and if he did, I’m to take him to the nearby rehab/mental illness clinic. He’s never been hospitalized, he’d been doing otherwise quite well lately, in January he switched from years of just Adderall to EffexorXR & Strattera. Dr. doubled his Effexor dose and told me to keep sharp things away from him and alert his teacher to keep an eye out. I’d never expected this in a milllion years, this is totally unfamiliar ground, and I’m terrified. My gut tells me not to hospitalize him unless it escalates or becomes difficult for him to stop. I suspect his Dr. told us this to cover herself in case he does hurt himself more drastically, but if this is just a one-shot thing or just odd experimentation on his own skin that will pass, I don’t want to overreact. I’m terrified, and have never heard of a child this young doing this…Any insights or suggestions from anyone?? I don’t know what to think. I want to take this seriously, but not freak him out, cause more anxiety, and make it worse.
Categories:
